If I could see into your future that you would never be in a romantic relationship, how would you feel?
You're probably not best placed to be dating right now. Your high motivation to find a relationship as being so important to your life means you'll probably accept something that doesn't really match your standards. You're in a really good position today because you will probably only accept a relationship that really matches your needs.
If you are single, how would you feel if I told you that you would never be in another romantic relationship for the rest of your life? Let's say I have the ability to look into a crystal ball and say with certainty that you will never date again. How would you react if your feeling is my life would be over, there would just be no point in continuing. You're probably not best placed to be dating right now, the reason being that your high motivation to find a relationship as being so important to your life means you'll probably accept something that doesn't really match your standards.
If you could answer instead, bummer. That's kind of disappointing, but my life will continue. You're in a really good position today because you will probably only accept a relationship that really matches your needs, your standards and your expectations will be much higher and you can walk away from the table if somebody is not offering you exactly what you deserve.
